Done.
November 10, 2009 at 10:39 am | In Photos, Whiney | 3 CommentsYou may have been aware (from my near constant whining) that I was putting together a gigantic project at work: a week-long lecture and panel discussion symposium leading up to a giant exhibition and artist and fancy people-filled opening reception. This project — I was told after I was five weeks of 10-hour days into it — has been organized in the past by the person in my position and a part time assistant hired for the project. OH THANK YOU. After most of the work has been done and everything has been set into motion, I’m told that I should have hired some help.
Anyhow… lots of work, lots of stress and long days, and I left in the middle for a week-long vacation to St. Martin which was incredibly difficult but so completely necessary. I have been dreading and looking forward to the opening for so long and this past Friday it happened. Oh boy did it happen. Record-breaking crowds, many happy faces, and it all went off without a hitch. I worked from 8:30am to 10:30 pm on Friday and by the time I got home my feet were so sore, I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to walk ever again. I was able to take a couple of days off to rest and recuperate, and I’m wondering what will fill my every waking second of thought now that the opening is over. What did I do before this exhibition came into my life? What was it like to actually have a lunch break? I don’t remember, but I look forward to trying it out again.
A Danger to Myself
November 1, 2009 at 11:14 am | In Whiney | 3 CommentsTags: broken bones, clumsy ox
Two weeks after breaking my own nose in St. Martin, it finally feels like it’s back to normal, the swelling is gone, and the breeze blowing across the bridge of my nose doesn’t make me want to cry. So what else would you expect me to do now that I’m pain free? Break a toe, of course. Yesterday, I made a “fancy” move falling off the tailgate of Luke’s truck at the dump and felt an unfortunate crack in my foot. This morning I have a stylish limp and a big, purple swollen toe. Fantastic. Everyone should probably keep their distance, I seem to be a one-person wrecking ball these days. I’m now off to search ebay for a protective bubble in which to hide.
Boo!
October 30, 2009 at 5:21 pm | In Celebrations, Photos | Leave a CommentTags: costume party, halloween

I posted this picture on Facebook this morning, but for the benefit of those not of the FB persuasion, please enjoy this most glorious glimpse of my mom, my sister, and me in our Halloween garb. This picture kills me. As does the image I have in my head of Andrea nearly falling on the floor and needing the table to hold herself up – so hard was she laughing when she saw my mom get out of the car in this gypsy wig. Now, this wasn’t just another crazy Sunday with my family, believe it or not. This was Cameron and Alex’s very first Halloween costume party.
My sister did an amazing job with the party planning. I couldn’t help her, I had gotten back from St. martin less than 48hours before the party kicked off, but she obviously doesn’t need any Halloween party help from me! There was creepy food, scary haunted houses to build, an over/under pass-the-pumpkin relay, scary storytelling, and a great alternative to musical chairs with Halloween themed mats to step on instead of chairs.
Here’s the whole creepy crew. Ninjas were popular this year, I see. I love Scooby Doo down there at the bottom. That’s my cousin’s son Hunter who played every game on all fours and ran as fast as the other kids on his hands and knees. I did manage to help out a teensy bit with the party by making my favorite Oreo balls into creepy mice for the party.
I used Golden Oreos so I could add a bunch of food coloring and make them gross and red inside when you bit them. They were a success. I only wish I’d given them creepy red eyes. Maybe next time. Andrea made very cute eyeballs out of white chocolate-dipped donut holes served on a fork – how clever was that?
And one last picture to delight and horrify you. Christian was dressed as a vampire – which isn’t a stretch since he draws blood all day long at work (as a phlebotomist) – but when the party was over and Andrea and my mom were taking off their costumes, Christian became… well I’m not really sure what he is, but man is it scary.
Happy Halloween!!
The St. Martin Story I Owe You
October 27, 2009 at 7:34 pm | In Photos | 3 CommentsTags: Sint Maarten, St. Martin, vacation
It was gorgeous. The end.
Seriously, that pretty much sums it up. Of the nearly 300 pictures on my camera, here’s what about 90% of them are:
Morning…
Night…
Morning…
Night…
Gorgeous, right? End of story.
OK, OK, I know you want details… let me consult Twitter so I can remember what we did.
A smooth, easy three hours and fifty minutes from JFK Airport and we went from this:
To this:
I highly recommend traveling with friends who are familiar with the place you are visiting. It couldn’t have been easier following the two of them around and having our own personal driver and tour guides. It didn’t take long for us to fall into a lazy routine.
Here’s a typical St. Martin day: Most mornings my internal alarm clock woke me around 6:30 and I’d get up and leave the world’s most comfortable king-sized bed with Luke still happily asleep in it. I’d take my camera and my iPod and go walking around the grounds of the Royal Palm, where we were staying. I’d check my email with the free wi-fi at the pool, brag about the weather on Facebook, take some pictures of the gorgeous views, grab a coffee at the nearby deli, and then around 8:30 or so, make my way back to the room where the sleepyheads were waking up and we were ready for breakfast.
We’d mull over which nearby breakfast place to visit, go have a leisurely breakfast with fresh fruit and pastries and fresh-squeezed juices, then return to the hotel room to change into our swimsuits and decide which beach to visit that day. We’d pack up the car and make our way to the beach where we’d bob in the water, lay under a sun umbrella, and generally laze around all day.
We’d leave the beach in the late afternoon and head back to the hotel to shower and change, then head out for dinner. After dinner we might go back to the favorite bar across from the hotel, The Lady C, or the awesome piano bar up the road, The Red Piano. We’d head back home, go to bed and start all over the next day. It was lazy, it was relaxing, and it was exactly what we all needed.
A couple of days we went to Dawn Beach where the waves were gentle and the water was warm.
One day we went to Orient Beach where the waves were raging and I came close to breaking my (still swollen and sore) nose by grasping for my sunglasses a bit too aggressively as I was being taken down by a wave.
And one strangely overcast day we went to Baie Rouge. There were times during that day where the sun was making my skin burn while, at the same time the raindrops fell and soaked my book. So strange. We had stopped at Baie Rouge earlier in the week as we were driving home from Orient Beach and I have to say that it might just be the prettiest beach on St. Martin. Don’t you agree?
One night we took advantage of the resort’s sunset catamaran cruise and enjoyed free rum punch and this gorgeous view:
A couple of days we went to the shopping town of Philipsburg to price out camera lenses and perfume. Check and check. One super sweet deal on a 70-300 zoom lens, a good price on Light Blue, and I was a happy girl. We even got to check out the town without any other shoppers when we went on Sunday, not realizing that all of the shops would be closed.
Other than that, it was just a lot of relaxing, a little gelato, some hanging by the pool, a bit of snorkeling, and a whole lot of amazing views of this beautiful island. Sigh…
So I heard it was snowing while I was gone…
Want to see more pictures of Paradise? The whole Flickr set is here: St. Martin/St. Maarten 2009
Gone
October 15, 2009 at 11:54 am | In Photos | 3 CommentsI’m at the point in my pre-vacation hysteria that I’m not sure I can even write coherent sentences. I’ve been so busy being busy that I haven’t been able to tell you about my crazy trip preparations; or the fact that Luke switched positions at work and is now working second shift driving tractor trailers; or that I decided I needed to paint my bathroom before we left for vacation. INSANITY.
Add to that fun, the delightful gift from Molly last night: a thorough skunking. Repeatedly bathing my dog with vinegar (which really works and doesn’t turn your poor dog pink, although does make her smell like a salad) was not at all what I had planned to do last night. Waking up smelling — and I swear tasting — skunk is not what I was hoping for this morning. I can smell skunk in my clothes, in my car, in my office at work — I think I’m going to grab my passport and my snorkel gear, set fire to the house and all of my skunky clothes, and head straight for St. Martin.
If you miss me next week, feel free to check on me over at Twitter. I hear that our resort has free wi-fi so I think I might use Twitter as a lazy travel journal. That way, in a week or so when we come home, where undoubtedly it will be cold and possibly snowing, I can look back on tweets like “spent all day on the beach” or “can’t believe it’s 85 degrees and sunny EVERY DAY here” and cry.
Have a great week everyone, I will bombard you with photos and stories of the tropical paradise of St. Martin when I return!
Let’s Talk About TV
October 7, 2009 at 1:28 pm | In TV, Books, Movies, and Music | 1 CommentMy mom called last night. She was worried that I hadn’t been blogging and I’d been so busy lately with work that I hadn’t even returned her emails. I admit, I’ve been bad. But work has been so head spinningly, panic attack-inducingly INSANE for the past couple of weeks. Add to that the cold that wouldn’t go away and the thought that I’ll be leaving in a jetplane in oh, nine days… aaah!
But I’m good. The cold is finally gone. If you ask Dr. Google, I had H1N1. All the symptoms were there except for the fever. Let’s just call it a nasty two-week cold and leave it at that. So with long days of exhausting work and a lousy splitting headache, what else can you do at night but watch TV? Luckily the new shows have been starting up and I have to say I’ve become hooked on a couple.
Dancing With the Stars, of course. DWTS just finished week three and my favorites so far are Kelly Osbourne, Louie the snowboarder, and Mya. I don’t want to admit that I like Donny Osmond, but honestly he’s doing great and he gave Bruno a big fake kiss on the mouth this week so I think I have to like him.
The Middle. I never expected to like anything Patricia Heaton acted in, so deep was my hatred for anything Everybody Loves Raymond (I have the same problem with Seinfeld and Julia Louis-Dreyfus), but I watched the first episode last week and I love this crazy family. From the moment the sulking, sarcastic teen-aged son came into the kitchen to complain about something and Heaton’s character, Frankie said “I can’t hear you if you’re not wearing pants” I was hooked. The sarcasm and love and twisted disfunctionality – I just love it. I can’t wait to park myself on the couch tonight to see the next episode.
Glee. Let’s see… cute, sassy people with incredible voices singing Journey and Bonnie Tyler and Kanye West songs in a high school glee club and an a capella group called “The Acafellas”? You had me at Journey. Last week there was even a guest spot by Kristin Chenoweth. How could it get any better? There’s a new episode on tonight. I think I missed an episode, maybe the first or second one? I’m not sure, but once things calm down I’m going to go online and catch up.
Eastwick. I love this show and I am more than certain that it will be canceled, which makes me sad. I love Eastwick for the same reasons I loved Pushing Daisies and we all know how well that went. It’s lovely and funny and magical and a pure delight for my very tired brain. Based on the movie The Witches of Eastwick, Eastwick the show is set in a small New England town where three very different women come together via some strange and mysterious circumstances that all seem to surround the arrival of the handsome stranger Daryl van Horne. It stars Lindsay Price from another canceled favorite Lipstick Jungle, and Rebecca Romijn and I am just praying that it won’t be canceled right away. Give me a full season, at least. Please, ABC. Another new episode is on tonight if I can stay up late enough to watch.
Other than DWTS on Mondays, it looks like all the shows I like are on Wednesday. That makes it easier to remember what days to tune in. And three of the four are on ABC. Way to go ABC. So tell me, what are your favorite shows?
Right…so, how is everyone?
September 28, 2009 at 12:23 pm | In Photos, Whiney | 1 CommentLess than 12 hours after returning from Albany last weekend, I started to feel a bit off. Sore throat, sore everything, exhausted, generally blah. Thus began the Albany Plague The Just Won’t Go Away. Almost everyone who went to Albany last weekend has some form of this sickness and at least two of them are being treated for bronchitis. I refuse to believe that I have bronchitis but I do have something that WON’T END and which left Luke and me laying on the couch all day yesterday watching back-to-back movies and taking turns making tea and fetching the Advil Cold & Sinus.
The annoying thing is that every other day I feel like I’m over it. In fact on Saturday, Luke and I were running around being productive all day, at one point even helping our friends hay their fields and stack bales in the barn. We felt great! The next day, we were limp and useless. What the heck? So rather than talk about how miserable I feel, I think I’ll keep the posting light again until I have the energy to pull out the camera again and show you what I’ve been doing in my moments of feeling well. I hope you’re all healthy and I’ll be back soon.
Monster Trucks and Quad Wars
September 21, 2009 at 8:14 pm | In Family and Friends, Photos | Leave a CommentWe hadn’t even made it halfway to the Cape last weekend before we already had plans for the next weekend. And I tell people we’re boring… Luke got a call from a friend who organizes the teams of quad riders to run Quad Wars in between the Monster Truck events at most local Monster Truck shows and he needed riders. A few more calls were made, a loaner quad had been located, and we were set to head up to Albany for Quad Wars.
Even though all of the guys racing quads are friends and carpooled to the arena (from Connecticut) they were split into two teams: New York (in the blue) and New Jersey (in red), and the story was that they hated each other.
This was hilarious as friends fake fought and I was “shoved” at one point by a New York team member because I was there with a New Jersey team member. Everyone had fun, no one got hurt (badly) and everyone ended the show by signing autographs for the fans. The adorable young fans were the best part of the whole weekend. One super-psyched young fan even got his forehead signed by three New Jersey team members.
Saturday we had free time in Albany until 4:00pm so we walked around and explored the city on one of the most gorgeous days I’ve seen lately. We joked about the apocalypse happening while we were sleeping, or perhaps a large population of zombies in Albany because the city was clean and beautiful and absolutely, completely deserted.
The city also has a strange mix of immaculate, historical buildings,
and dilapidated, deserted, and partially torn down buildings.
Several deserted blocks later, we figured out where all of Albany was — and no, it wasn’t the zombies. It was a street fair. The mother of all street fairs. We were on the street, shoulder to sweaty shoulder with the crowds when I looked up and said “holy crap”. I held the camera over my head to take this picture, and if you click here to see the picture full size, you will see that there are crowds as far as the eye can see.
We walked past vendors galore, food stands, restaurants, crafters, crazies, and at least five stages with different bands playing live music. It was amazing. We barely saw a quarter of it when we started to feel claustrophobic and decided to head out.
Heading back to the arena after the street air, no only did we have to wait while a Latin parade passed by, we also walked past another festival going on unrelated to the mobbed street fair. Albany was in a celebrating mood! And so were we, because it was time for the PIT PARTY!
The Monster Trucks and the quads were set out on the arena floor and the most adorable crowd of excited kids came in to talk to the riders, have their pictures taken, and collect autographs. It was just too cute to see all of the kids and watch them hand their checkered flags over, wide-eyed to the quad riders, completely enthralled. After the pit party, it was time to race. I went up to the stands and got ready for a great show.
And not just from the quads. Seriously, look at this — these trucks weigh 10,000 pounds. How about his one:
The dad sitting next to us kept flinching to shield his son. It was a small arena and even I wondered what I should do in case of emergency. Hope was all I could come up with because seriously, what can you do when a five-foot tall tire is flying your way? But anyhow, back to the quads…
The quad riders were fired up and riding on concrete for the second night and they pulled out all the stops. There was sliding and tumbling, one quad with handlebars bent the wrong way, and one quad that tumbled forward and rolled over its rider.
“Surprisingly” the New York team won again on Saturday night, here is the team captain celebrating.
And here is my favorite action shot of Luke — completely unintentional but totally cool.
It was another great weekend with friends and I can’t thank Christine and Joe enough for lending Luke a quad and experiencing all of Albany with us. You guys are the best!























































